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HER is a dating and social community app designed primarily for queer women, lesbians, bisexual people, nonbinary people, transgender people, and other sapphic users. It combines profile-based discovery and messaging with interest communities, events, and LGBTQIA+ conversation spaces. Core functions such as viewing profiles, adding friends, chatting, joining communities, and browsing events are available free, while HER Premium adds features including incognito browsing, expanded filters, unlimited swipes, and visibility into likes. The service is available through iOS and Android apps and in more than 125 countries, with support for several languages.

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HER facts

Structured facts are shown only when our research found a supporting public source.

PricingCore features are free; optional HER Premium subscription adds additional discovery, privacy, visibility, and convenience features. Exact prices vary by country, platform, and billing cadence.
Free optionYes — some features are available free
LanguagesEnglish, Spanish, French, German, Japanese
PlatformsIos, Android, IOS, Android, Mobile App, Web
AvailabilityAvailable in more than 125 countries, with consumer-facing localization identified for English, Spanish, French, German, and Japanese.
Minimum age18
VerificationHER describes profile authentication or verification using supported account or social connections and provides options to identify or filter for verified profiles.
MatchingProfile-based discovery using preferences, location or nearby discovery, identity and sexuality filters, interest signals, and mutual interest.
MessagingUsers can start chats and communicate through the app; messaging is subject to safety and moderation systems.
CompanyBloomer Inc., doing business as HER; current terms identify Match Group Americas, LLC as the service operator.
Launched2013

What HER is

HER is a dating and community platform built around the needs of queer women and the broader sapphic and LGBTQIA+ community. It is intended for adults who want to meet potential partners, make friends, discover local queer communities, or participate in LGBTQIA+ conversations and events. The service welcomes lesbian, bisexual, transgender, nonbinary, gender-nonconforming, and other queer users, with profile and identity options intended to support more expressive self-description than a conventional general-audience dating app.

The product experience centers on profiles, discovery, mutual interest, and messaging. Users can view profiles, swipe or otherwise indicate interest, add friends, start chats, and use nearby or online discovery tools. HER also includes community spaces organized around interests and identity, an LGBTQIA+ news or social feed, and event information. Availability and the size of local communities may vary by country and city, so the experience can be stronger in areas with an established queer user base. HER states that its core dating and community functions are free.

Premium is an optional subscription that may provide an ad-free experience, additional search filters, unlimited swipes, incognito browsing, the ability to see who has liked or viewed a profile, and real-time online visibility. Subscription terms, renewal conditions, and available features should be reviewed in the app or at checkout because offerings can change by platform, country, and billing period. Safety tools include profile authentication or verification features, reporting and blocking controls, moderation, safe-message filtering, and educational dating-safety guidance.

Users should still protect personal information, avoid sending money, verify identity independently, and use caution when arranging an in-person meeting. HER requires users to be at least 18 years old. The service collects account, profile, location, device, and usage information according to its privacy documentation, and some features depend on location permissions and mobile-app access.

Pricing and free access

Core features are free; optional HER Premium subscription adds additional discovery, privacy, visibility, and convenience features. Exact prices vary by country, platform, and billing cadence. Billing model: Optional auto-renewing Premium subscription; billing terms depend on the purchase platform and selected duration.. A free level or free basic access was found in the current research.

What you may be able to do for free

  • view profiles
  • add friends
  • start chats
  • join communities
  • view events
  • core dating and community access

Paid features we found

  • ad-free experience
  • see who is online in real time
  • additional search filters
  • incognito mode
  • see who has liked you
  • see who has viewed your profile
  • unlimited swipes
  • rewind accidentally rejected profiles

Who it may suit

HER is currently classified for dating, relationship, community, friendship. Its audience signals include adults, lgbtq, women, lesbian adults. Our research also found a focus on dating, long-term relationships, casual dating, friendship.

AdultsLgbtqWomenLesbian AdultsBisexual AdultsQueer AdultsTrans AdultsNonbinary AdultsGender Nonconforming AdultsLGBTQIA+ Adults Seeking Dating Or CommunityTransgender AdultsNon Binary AdultsLGBTQIA+ Adults Seeking DatingLGBTQIA+ Adults Seeking Friendship Or CommunityQueer WomenSapphic SinglesLGBTQIA+ Adults Seeking Friendship Or RelationshipsInclusiveLesbian DatingBisexual DatingQueer DatingTrans DatingNonbinary CommunityLGBTQIA+ Social NetworkingWomen And Sapphic CommunitiesIdentity And PrideLesbianBisexualQueerSapphicTransgenderNon BinaryGender NonconformingLGBTQIA+ CommunitiesIdentityInterests And HobbiesLocal EventsSapphic DatingQueer CommunityNonbinary DatingLGBTQIA+ FriendshipsIdentity ExpressionLocal Queer EventsInterest CommunitiesDatingRelationshipCommunityFriendshipLGBTQIA+ CommunityLocal ConnectionsEventsLong Term RelationshipsCasual DatingFind A Queer Dating PartnerMeet Lesbian And Sapphic SinglesMake LGBTQIA+ FriendsJoin Queer CommunitiesDiscover LGBTQIA+ EventsChat With Nearby Queer PeopleExplore LGBTQIA+ Dating

How it works

Matching: Profile-based discovery using preferences, location or nearby discovery, identity and sexuality filters, interest signals, and mutual interest.

Messaging: Users can start chats and communicate through the app; messaging is subject to safety and moderation systems.

Signup: be at least 18 years old · provide an eligible account authentication method such as phone number, email, Apple ID, or supported social account · agree to applicable terms and policies

What to know before joining

  • 18+ only
  • local activity and match availability vary by city and country
  • some features require location access
  • Premium pricing and feature availability vary by platform and region
  • subscriptions may automatically renew unless canceled
  • users should independently verify people and use caution when meeting offline

Features we track

  • Mobile App
  • Community
  • Crak Public Geo Count:50
  • Crak Public Geo Count:24
  • Profile Discovery And Matching
  • Likes And Messaging
  • Friends And Social Connections
  • Community Groups
  • News And Social Feed
  • Events
  • Profile Identity Options
  • Pronouns And Pride Pins
  • Verification And Reporting Tools
  • Incognito Mode

Sources used

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