Poly & ENM Dating
Compare dating apps and communities that are compatible with polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.
Feeld
Feeld is an adults-only dating and connection app for singles, couples, and other people exploring relationships in less conventional ways. It supports profile pairing,…
OkCupid
OkCupid is an online dating service available through its website and mobile apps. It uses profile information, preferences, and answers to compatibility questions to…
BiCupid
BiCupid is an adults-only dating service focused on bisexual and bi-curious singles and couples, while also welcoming LGBTQ+ and open-minded users. It offers profile…
Flure
Flure.com is a global online dating service for adults seeking conversation, friendship, companionship, virtual relationships, or romance. The website supports profile browsing, matching based…
HER
HER is a mobile dating and social app designed primarily for lesbian, bisexual, queer, transgender, nonbinary, and gender-nonconforming people. It combines profile discovery and…
Taimi
Taimi is an LGBTQ+ dating and social app for adults seeking dating, friendship, and other personal connections. Its positioning emphasizes broad inclusion across sexual…
Grindr
Grindr is a location-based social networking and dating service for gay, bisexual, trans, queer, and other LGBTQ adults. The service supports nearby profile discovery,…
Tinder
Tinder is a location-based dating and social-discovery service for adults 18 and older. Users create profiles, review recommended profiles, and can match and chat…
How to compare poly & enm dating services
The useful question is not simply which dating app is biggest. For polyamory and ethical non-monogamy, the better comparison is whether a service attracts the right audience, supports the relationship goal you actually have, works in your country, and gives you enough ways to judge compatibility before paying.
We therefore separate relevance from commercial value. A specialist community can be a better fit than a large mainstream app, while a larger platform may still be more practical when a niche service has limited local activity. The services above are ordered from the structured evidence currently in our database, not from a fixed paid placement list.
Current examples in this part of the index include Feeld, OkCupid, BiCupid, Flure. The list can change as services are re-researched, availability changes, or we discover stronger evidence for another platform.
Look for a member community that matches the identity, age range or lifestyle behind your search—not just generic popularity.
Compare free access, messaging rules, apps, matching tools, privacy controls and whether the service works where you live.
Relationship-focused, chat-first, casual and open-minded platforms solve different problems. Choose the service type before comparing price.
What we check
Our automated research looks for current information from official service pages, help centres, app stores and other public sources. When pricing, languages, verification or platform availability can be supported, those facts are added to individual service profiles. If a fact cannot be confirmed, we leave it out rather than filling the page with guesses.
Before you join
Check what is included before paying, whether cancelling is straightforward, and whether the service has enough activity in your location. Dating platforms can change subscription prices, free-feature limits and availability by country, so the individual service profile is the better place to verify current details.
Common questions
How are services selected for this page?
They are matched from our structured service database using the page's intent, community and audience signals. Pages with too little matching evidence are kept out of the index until the database is strong enough.
Does the highest affiliate payout rank first?
No. Affiliate payout is stored separately and is only a small tie-breaker after relevance, availability and evidence quality.
How fresh is the information?
Services are automatically queued for re-research. Public offer data and service evidence are refreshed on a schedule, and dated sources are retained so stale claims can be replaced.